Monday, October 21, 2013

I'll Find You What You Need...


I say that a lot.  Things like, "Don't worry about it, I'll figure it out."  I say it even more when people ask if I need help.  "I got it!"  I've always liked to do things on my own and than I get mad that no one has helped me.  Ha ha.  Jokes on me.

A couple nights ago I was at my parents house and it was really late, I didn't want to look for a parking spot at my place downtown and my Mom was coaxing me into spending the night.  I knew she was right, I should stay, I was exhausted and I don't like driving at night.  The moment I announced that I was staying, I zombie walked to the bathroom to brush my teeth and take off my makeup.

As I reentered the room, I stopped...Mom was ripping off the couch pillows and tucking the newly washed sheet under the cushions.  I watched her make the best looking couch bed I'd ever seen and than make sure the fireplace was on, so I wouldn't get cold...she's a God.

It is my Mom's 'love language.'  She is NON-STOP.  A couple hours earlier my brother walked into the house and without hesitation she bee-lined for the fridge, pulled out the salmon, quinoa and egg and started pan-frying her delicious, homemade Salmon Patties.  As she was already flipping the patty, "Trev, are you hungry? He nodded yes.  "Want me to make you a salmon patty?"  His eyes lit up and that was enough.  A few minutes (most likely seconds) later a toasted bun was being placed onto a plate as avocado slices lined the bun and the salmon patty was delicately tucked in between the two slices of Dave's Killer Bread.  The sandwich was a thing of glory.

I marvel at my Mom.  She does it all.  But is exhausted!  And she doesn't ask for help, so I try to pick up here and there as much as I can when I'm home.

I get it.  She is a woman, mother, friend, wife, sister, life coach and inspirational quote giver that I can only hope to be somewhat like when I have my own family.


Just so you know Mom, it's okay to ask for help. :)
Either way, you are truly a real life SUPERWOMAN!

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